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3 Options When Facing Social Pressure

And peer pressure doesn’t go away at the end of high school. Truth be told, we aren’t so very different than we were in junior high. Most of the same longings, fears, impulses and questions burn inside of us. But we do have one key difference: We can be aware of peer pressure. We don’t have to be ruled by it.
Three options when facing social pressure:
1) See it coming–and fight it. Decide what is most important and go for it. Don’t ask around to see if others approve. And for the really big stuff, be prepared to leave people behind if they don’t want to go with you. Some things are too important to subject to a popular vote. You’ll never regret doing what’s right.
2) Harness it for your own benefit. Surround yourself with people who value what you think is important. Create peer pressure to do the right things. Want to be a better parent? Hang around great parents as much as you can. Exercising friends can inspire you to finally exercise, too.
3) Find another source to satisfy your longings. The bad news: Those longings that woke in you as a child aren’t going away. They are who you are at your core, shaping your life in ways often overlooked. The good news: There are healthier ways to satisfy every longing. And nothing frees you from peer pressure like having your heart be extravagantly loved by God. A Twinkie isn’t so tempting after I’ve eaten an epic Easter dinner.

 

 

 

Scott Wozniak3 Options When Facing Social Pressure
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